BRAVE STAR Emotional moment Emmerdale’s Jaye Griffiths breaks down in tears live on Loose Women
EMMERDALE’S Jaye Griffiths broke down in tears live on Loose Women as she opened up about being domestically abused.
The soap star, 62, spent five years in a terrifying relationship that saw her former partner abuse her physically and mentally.
The TV star bravely opened up on feeling “ashamed” by what had happened to her, but how she is now finally “herself again”.
Jaye, who plays Celia Daniels on Emmerdale, appeared on today’s Loose Women where she opened up about her horrific ordeal at the hands of her former partner.
The star, who is now in a loving relationship, broke down almost immediately as she relived her awful experience.
The actress, who famously played D.I. Sally Johnson in ITV‘s The Bill, began to cry as she talked about about the toll the abuse had taken on her.
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Speaking about what could trigger her partner to abuse her, she told the Loose Women panel: “If you made the tea the wrong way, that could have consequences.”
Jaye then began to cry as she said: “I was told I was useless.”
She also declared she will never feel “small and inconsequential” again, after escaping the abuse.
Jaye said: “Your boundaries are made of concrete, oh my goodness me. And that is a lovely thing.
“I WILL NOT, those words are so powerful, when you get to say them to yourself.
“I will NEVER be in that position again.
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“I will NEVER feel that small and inconsequential. To be told how useless you were.”
Jaye also broke down as she talked about her life now, which is “so peaceful” and how she was no longer feels “scared every minute of every day”.
She admitted that talking about her experience made her “go right back” as her fellow Loose Women rallied round as she got visibly emotional.
Speaking about her current happy relationship, she revealed that her past trauma meant her new partner was not allowed to “sneak up behind her or touch her neck”.
The actress continued: “I am living a life that is so beautiful, and I know it’s cliche-ridden but I love my home and my husband and our gentle quiet life we lead.”
A few weeks ago, Jaye talked more about the abuse she suffered on Loose Women star Kaye Adams‘ How To Be 60 podcast.
She recalled: “I couldn’t tell anybody because I was so ashamed. I disappeared for about five years.
“You would now use the term gaslight – but I couldn’t make a decision, I didn’t know if what I thought was real was real, because he would constantly tell me I was wrong and the day after he hit me, I would get jewellery.”
Domestic abuse – how to get help
DOMESTIC abuse can affect anyone – including men – and does not always involve physical violence.
Here are some signs that you could be in an abusive relationship:
- Emotional abuse – Including being belittled, blamed for the abuse – gaslighting – being isolated from family and friends, having no control over your finances, what you where and who you speak to
- Threats and intimidation – Some partners might threaten to kill or hurt you, destroy your belongings, stalk or harass you
- Physical abuse – This can range from slapping or hitting to being shoved over, choked or bitten.
- Sexual abuse – Being touched in a way you do not want to be touched, hurt during sex, pressured into sex or forced to have sex when you do not consent.
If any of the above apply to you or a friend, you can call these numbers:
- The Freephone National Domestic Abuse Helpline, run by Refuge on 0808 2000 247 for free at any time, day or night
- Men who are being abused can call Respect Men’s Advice Line on 0808 8010 327 or ManKind on 0182 3334 244
- Those who identify as LGBT+ can ring Galop on 0800 999 5428
- If you are in immediate danger or fear for your life, always ring 999
Remember, you are not alone.
1 in 4 women and 1 in 7 men will experience domestic abuse over the course of their lifetime.
Every 30 seconds the police receive a call for help relating to domestic abuse.
Explaining how far the horrifying abuse went, the brave star said: “If I put the heating on in the house there could be consequences to that, ‘you f***ing waste my money‘, so, I wouldn’t put it on.
“If I didn’t put it on and the house was cold, there’d be consequences to that, so you live in a world of, ‘What should I do? what’s for the best?’”
Jaye continued: “I lived in this twilight existence and I had to start again.
“I had to find out that someone walking behind you didn’t mean you were going to get clobbered, that people sometimes said truthful things.
“But that took a very long time.
“When I finally went to the police they said on average a woman is hit 37 times before she tells anyone.
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“All I did was lie – ‘No, I’m fine thanks, I’m fine’, and that’s exhausting.”
On Loose Women today, Jaye said she is now “happy with herself” and that she is now living a life that is “so gentle and peaceful”.